Ana, if I am one of the people your apology is directed to, I do not accept it. Perhaps that is rude of me, but you appear to be a busy and forgetful person such as me (I beg your pardon, though, for saying so), so no explanation necessary, in my opinion.
"whatever is left, is left for others to define" -- This is powerful advice, Jaume, but I didn't notice that on first reading. It reminds me of a comment I saw in a thread a week or so ago:
'It's none of your business what people think of you!'
Very honeybadger of a concept, but for some reason the phrasing was almost an epiphany for me. Now if I can just remember to incorporate where applicable I am greatly aided.